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Replying to One Who Says Christians Should Have No Rights

By BJUGrace Posted on March 3, 2015 Posted in Blog

posted by Rebecca (First published at Here’s the Joy fall 2014, republished in part on Recovering Grace. Though we believe Bill Gothard first introduced the concept of Christians having no rights, we believe that this teaching has permeated much of certain branches …

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An open letter to Bob Jones III

By BJUGrace Posted on January 17, 2015 Posted in Blog

posted by Rebecca One night of Bible Conference of 2013, Bob Jones 3 made a short speech after the main sermon. The main speaker had referenced doing hard things from the book of Jonah, and though Bob Jones 3’s words …

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Holy Indignation in Westminster Abbey

By BJUGrace Posted on January 6, 2015 Posted in Blog

by Kristi It was time for Evensong at Westminster Abbey on December 29, 2014. The crowd was sitting in their seats, all bundled in coats, scarves, and gloves. We were all gazing in wonder at this beautiful centuries-old place of worship, when …

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Counseling after a fatal bus wreck

By BJUGrace Posted on December 31, 2014 Posted in Blog
Counseling after a fatal bus wreck

Jim Berg’s counseling represents what has been a systemic problem in the counseling practiced by key figures in the University and those who were trained by them.We have compiled some quotations from the GRACE report that focus specifically on two …

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Our analysis of Steve Pettit’s chapel talk after the GRACE report

By BJUGrace Posted on December 16, 2014 Posted in Blog

Monday morning Steve Pettit addressed the  people of BJU in chapel. The transcript of his talk was made public on the site BJUNews here, and our commentary on it is in bold. I do want to highlight our own BJU.edu website that actually really …

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Thoughts from another BJU-related abuse survivor after the GRACE report

By BJUGrace Posted on December 16, 2014 Posted in Blog

From a sexual abuse /assault survivor who was counseled less than ten years ago by head counselor and counseling teacher and counseling book author Jim Berg.  We aren’t victims. We are survivors. That’s what my trauma therapist and my DBT …

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Thoughts from a BJU-related abuse survivor about education at Bob Jones University

By BJUGrace Posted on December 14, 2014 Posted in Blog

An abuse survivor whose story is told in the GRACE report has written this for us to publish. Since she’s the first survivor to post with us, we’re giving her the A name “Anna.” I have read the entire GRACE …

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An Outline and Brief Summary of the GRACE report on Bob Jones University

By BJUGrace Posted on December 13, 2014 Posted in Blog

This outline is designed to help you know where to jump in if the report in its entirety seems daunting.   (What’s in parentheses is our synopsis of the section or sometimes a synopsizing quotation of the section.) When you’re ready to read the …

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A letter to Bob Wood regarding his teachings on sexual abuse counseling

By BJUGrace Posted on December 12, 2014 Posted in Blog

posted by Rebecca In March of 2013 I watched this video, a lecture of Bob Wood to a counseling class, called “Scriptural Principles for Counseling the Hurting.” Though the video was from the 1990s, it was still for sale in …

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Today I prayed . . .

By BJUGrace Posted on December 9, 2014 Posted in Blog

posted by Rebecca By the end of October of 2012, I had been aware of the issue of sexual abuse (sometimes beyond my imaginings!) in “good Christian families” and from “good Christian leaders” for only about four months. This period of time constituted—I …

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