All blog posts

2019

Apr 1 | “My missionary offender came back to the U.S.”

2017

Mar 14 | A Tri-City Christian School story

2016

Dec 12 | Finding my real identity by Wendy Terrado
Dec 9 | Wendy’s hopes for Bob Jones University
Dec 8 | Wendy’s account of rape and coverup, Part Four
Dec 7 | Wendy’s account of rape and coverup, Part Three
Dec 6 | Wendy’s account of rape and coverup, Part Two
Dec 5 | Wendy’s account of rape and coverup, Part One
Dec 2 | What’s been happening the past couple of years?
Oct 18 | Steve Pettit cites Bob Newhart “Stop It” skit as good example for counseling
Sep 16 | Destructive bitterness is the bitterness of the abuser
Aug 18 | What is Biblical bitterness? Most of the time, it’s agony and grief.
Aug 10 | The “gall of bitterness” in Acts–it isn’t resentment
Aug 2 | The “root of bitterness” in Hebrews — it isn’t unforgiveness
Jul 13 | If You Want to Help Us. . .
Jun 30 | Some reasons abuse victims don’t tell
Jun 27 | Recap of the Benjamin Lawson Adams case
Apr 6 | Cookeville timeline and why we’re posting
Apr 5 | Karen’s Story: from Cookeville Christian School to Bob Jones University
Mar 30 | Barbra’s Story Part Two: at Bob Jones University and Beyond
Mar 21 | Barbra’s Story Part One: At Cookeville Christian School
Mar 11 | Jesus Loves Me: An Abuse Survivor’s Story
Feb 18 | What Helps, What Hurts
Jan 13 | An open letter to Steve Pettit regarding Baptist Pioneer Mission
Jan 5 | Three College Shipwrecks, by Bob Jones Sr.

2015

Dec 17 | The laughter of delight
Dec 14 | A year after the GRACE report
Dec 10 | BJU quietly invites mission organization that is harboring an alleged abuser
Nov 21 | The painting on my grandmother’s wall
Nov 15 | Scars
Nov 13 | After the Shining the Light Conference 2015
Nov 5 | for someone who knows an abuse survivor
Nov 1 | A former BJU Public Safety Officer speaks
Sep 28 | Bob Jones Third speaks on the GRACE report
Sep 10 | The Importance of Feelings
Aug 20 | Making sense of the Josh Duggar adultery website scandal
Aug 10 | Chicks and a chicken hawk and Brood Clones University
Jul 31 | MK abuse, PK perfection, and BJU
Jul 15 | BJU-related abuse and reading the Bible
Jul 8 | A critique of nouthetic (“Biblical”) counseling Part Three
Jul 7 | A critique of nouthetic (“Biblical”) counseling Part Two
Jul 6 | A critique of nouthetic (“Biblical”) counseling Part One
May 24 | A message to BJU: I could have been a Duggar
May 23 | Thoughts on learning of the Duggar scandal
Apr 21 | Survivors’ Summit: A Gathering of Heroes
Apr 12 | Why I Speak
Apr 11 | What we’re doing at BJUGrace
Mar 23 | An open letter to Bob Jones University from the survivors of the Abuse Response Task Force
Mar 14 | Kathy speaks
Mar 13 | A brief analysis of BJU’s response to the GRACE report
Mar 3 | Replying to One Who Says Christians Should Have No Rights
Jan 17 | An open letter to Bob Jones III
Jan 6 | Holy Indignation in Westminster Abbey

2014

Dec 31 | Counseling after a fatal bus wreck
Dec 16 | Our analysis of Steve Pettit’s chapel talk after the GRACE report
Dec 16 | Thoughts from another BJU-related abuse survivor after the GRACE report
Dec 14 | Thoughts from a BJU-related abuse survivor about education at Bob Jones University
Dec 13 | An Outline and Brief Summary of the GRACE report on Bob Jones University
Dec 12 | A letter to Bob Wood regarding his teachings on sexual abuse counseling
Dec 9 | Today I prayed . . .
Dec 5 | Are you loyal?