If the victim is young and has never told anyone before. 1. “No one will believe me. He’s too nice/powerful/well-respected.” 2. “I’ll get in trouble. They’ll blame me.” 3. “It really was my fault. Any time something bad happens, it’s…
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- Why are you tarnishing the reputation of Christ before a watching world?
- We all just need to forgive. Why are you so unforgiving?
- You need to wait for all the facts
- Why don’t you give the benefit of the doubt?
- These things happened so long ago. Why are you bringing them up now?
- What about false allegations?
- Why aren’t people showing grace?
- But aren’t all sins equal?
- How can you be so disloyal to your alma mater?
- You shouldn’t air dirty laundry
- Rape happens everywhere
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- Matthew 7:1 We shouldn’t judge.
- Matthew 18 You should go to your brother in private instead of posting publicly like this.
- John 8:7 “He that is without sin among you, let him first cast the first stone.”
- I Corinthians 6:1-8. Christians shouldn’t take other Christians to court.
- Ephesians 5:12: “For it is a shame even to speak of those things which are done by them in secret.”
- 2 Samuel 1:20 “Tell it not in Gath.”
- Proverbs 18:13 “He that answereth a matter before he heareth it, it is folly and shame unto him.”
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